As a 29 years old woman, I had some experience in life that God forbid, my baby will feel it too. There's things I do that I hate, forced to do, and clearly unhappy about it. This is some of it, I put it down here as a reminder for future me to NOT doing it to my baby. Here goes the list;
- When it comes to wedding day, please have a respect for your baby to do it as her wish. It's not your pride parade, clearly no one judge how successful you are as a parents based on your daughter wedding reception. It's her day, let her do it on her way. When she didn't ask for your opinion then ZIP IT!
- Never ever tell your baby to do something while you don't even give an example to her. Like tell her to eat vegetables while you alone can't stand it. Uh-huh, never. Children learn by example.
- Enough with what society will said about you and your family cause they give you nothing! It's your life, do what makes you feel good and proud about it.
- Your baby have no obligation to give back to you just because you are her mother who gave birth to her. She didn't ask for it. Never use that as an argument. That's when you go very low.
- Always show your daughter that life is about living with her head up with anything she had. No shame to be herself with her own baggage.
- Tell your daughter the truth about society. People will always judge, but that's none of her business. Just do what she like, what she believe in, and always pray because there is an invisible hand in life.
PS: If I experience something new and hate it, I'll post it.
- Chia -
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